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Guest Post: Cultivating Your Writing with Time Away by Jan Kirchner

“Cultivating Your Writing with Time Away” by Jan Kirchner

Fellow Readers….

There have been many aspects of my life that have kept me busy.  My purpose for this post is to talk about a couple of these that keep me very busy, and then to explain why taking time away for yourself is important.  In my efforts to cultivate my writing, I may feel a bit of imposter syndrome, but as long as I’ve worked so hard to reclaim my mental health, I shouldn’t feel guilty about taking the time I need to become the writer I’ve always desired to be.

The first thing that keeps me forever busy is my job.  I’ve been a supervisor since August of 2021, and I work easily 50-60+ hours a week.  Yes, one week within the scope of my job.  So, how I managed to get Holes in Your Umbrella together will be forever a wonder.  But the next busy task is my daughter.  In my poem, “Presenting My Daughter” featured in my book, I discuss the challenges I’m faced with being her mom.  And trust me when I say there are many challenges to being this wonderful child’s parent.  She will forever be my mini-me.  Even though in February, she turned “sweet & sour” 16, she will forever be a priority in my life.  

The next task that has proven to now take up a good chunk of time is not only writing my books, but also promoting them.  If I were going through a traditional publisher, I would have a department devoted to the marketing and promotion of my novels.  But since I’ve declared myself an indie publisher, which I do not regret, I must do all the marketing and promoting myself.  It’s becoming a mini part-time job on its own.  If I let it. 

With all that being said, it is extremely important to the maintenance of my mental health to not let all this busyness swallow me up.  I could see myself getting completely lost mentally and emotionally if I’m not careful.  This week, I started using up a few hours of vacation time at work to focus on some things at home.  My husband and I even went on an afternoon movie date to see the new Spider-Man before it left the theater. If creative juices aren’t flowing from home, another option to recharge and gain some productive writing timing can be by planning a short weekend writing retreat getaway so you can have complete 100% solace to continue working on your next book. 

Of course you don’t want to let the important people and things in your life down.  However, in order to avoid regressing in your recovery, it is important to prioritize your mental and emotional health.

Author Bio

Sometimes she’s felt a little bit like Alice having fallen down the hole, following after the White Rabbit. However, most days she is the Mad Hatter who outwardly appears normal yet is crazier than a loon in her own mind.  Her name is Jan.  As long as she could remember, she’s always struggled with some form of mental and emotional health issues, but it wasn’t until she turned 40 that she found the strength to get professional help.  As of 2021, she was diagnosed bipolar-depressive with anxiety, PTSD, and most recently borderline personality disorder.  The BPD diagnosis came as a bit of a shock.  She’s always struggled with the internal question of Who is she?  But what she is finally embracing is she is we, and we are she. Enjoy more from Jan’s blog, Pieces of Fractured Glass And please feel free to reach out to Jan via https://linktr.ee/jankirchner which is the home to all the links where you can connect with her and her latest publications.   

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Ashley O’Melia is an independent author and freelancer from Southern Illinois.  She holds her Bachelor’s Degree in Creative Writing and English from Southern New Hampshire University.  Her books include The Wanderer’s Guide to Dragon Keepingand The Graveside DetectiveHer short stories have been published in The Penmen Review, Siren’s Call, and Subcutaneous.  Ashley’s freelance work has spanned numerous genres for clients around the world.  You can find her on Facebook and Amazon.

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Tarot Tuesday! Card of the Week from Shadowscapes Tarot

It’s time once again for Tarot Tuesday! The energy of Monday is cleared away, and it’s time to look toward the rest of the week.

This week’s pull is from Shadowscapes Tarot by Stephanie Pui-Mun Law and Barbara Moore. It’s a beautifully illustrated deck with a guidebook that reads like a fantasy novel. It’s beautiful and inspiring, and I highly recommend it!

If you’re interested in a reading of your own, please see the bottom of this post.

The suit of pentacles deal with earthly materials and resources, like money or the body. The King of Pentacles has all of these things perfectly managed. He knows how to take a small seed and turn it into a fruitful crop. Whatever he sets out to do, he sees through to its fruition. The King is more than willing to share his bounty. He is as strong and stable as a tree, the perfect person to lean on in tough times. This card could represent you, or it could also be a strong male figure in your life. If you’re considering trying something new or taking a risk, it’ll probably go well for you. If you’re having trouble, find the real King of Pentacles in your life and lean on him for support.

What does this card mean for you?

Interested in a reading of your own?

You’ll receive a photo of the actual cards drawn and a thorough explanation of their meaning. The readings are done through email, so please ensure a valid email address is included with your payment! This is for a generalized reading with a deck that calls to me. If you have a specific question or needs, please feel free to email me at ashley@ashleyomelia.com and we can get it arranged easily. Thank you!

$10.00

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Ashley O’Melia is an independent author and freelancer from Southern Illinois.  She holds her Bachelor’s Degree in Creative Writing and English from Southern New Hampshire University.  Her books include The Wanderer’s Guide to Dragon Keeping and The Graveside DetectiveHer short stories have been published in The Penmen Review, Siren’s Call, and Subcutaneous.  Ashley’s freelance work has spanned numerous genres for clients around the world.  You can find her on Facebook and Amazon.

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Book Review: A Class Coveted by Susie Murphy

You know that feeling when you read an amazing book that completely transports you to another time and place, and then you find out there’s going to be a sequel? And then you read the sequel and find out it’s just as amazing as the first? And then that happens all over again? And then again?

It’s a wonderful feeling, and it keeps happening every time I pick up the latest book in Susie Murphy’s A Matter of Class series! The most recent release is book 4, A Class Coveted, and it’s no less enticing than the first three.

The series follows the love story of Bridget and Cormac, two halves of the same soul who must constantly find ways to be together even as the world and society constantly try to tear them apart. Murphy creates such deep, involved characters that you feel as though you know them personally, and you struggle right alongside them as they deal with building their future in a new country while still grappling with their past.

From the back cover:

Their choices have shackled her dreams…

It’s 1836, and Bridget and Cormac have arrived, full of hope, to the city of Boston with their growing family. However, as they adjust to domestic life together for the first time, they face anti-Irish sentiment from the local Americans, as well as a threat to their happiness from a much closer source.

Cormac undertakes the challenging search for his missing sister, Bronagh. He is determined to do all he can to put the broken pieces of his family back together, but the appalling truth he uncovers will shake him to his core.

Meanwhile, as Emily grows up in this new country, she realises how her parents’ past actions will affect her entire future and she begins to covet that which is no longer within her reach. When she receives an unexpected proposition, will she be able to resist its temptation, despite the untrustworthy nature of the person behind it?

Often in my book reviews, I break it down into what I love and what I’m not so crazy about. The thing is, there’s really only one category here! I love it all! This entire series is historical romance at its best. It’s Outlander without the time travel, except that I’m absolutely traveling back in time while I read it. I can honestly say I squeal with delight every time I find out there’s another installment coming, and Susie has already announced that there will be a fifth book! The series is also being released as audiobooks, which is really exciting!

I highly recommend A Class Coveted to anyone who enjoys living in the past for a while and getting caught up in a sweeping romance that will stand the test of time.

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Ashley O’Melia is an independent author and freelancer from Southern Illinois.  She holds her Bachelor’s Degree in Creative Writing and English from Southern New Hampshire University.  Her books include The Wanderer’s Guide to Dragon Keepingand The Graveside DetectiveHer short stories have been published in The Penmen Review, Siren’s Call, and Subcutaneous.  Ashley’s freelance work has spanned numerous genres for clients around the world.  You can find her on Facebook and Amazon.

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Guest Post: 15 Reasons You Need to Keep Writing by Teri M. Brown

What’s In It for Your Reader? 15 Reasons You Need to Keep Writing

As an author, I am not fond of marketing. I’d much rather be settled in, a cup of cocoa on my left, a notebook on my right, and my fingers tapping away at the keyboard in front of me. However, without marketing, all that writing would just languish on a shelf gathering dust. So, market I must.

My first foray into this arena was almost my last. The guru in charge of the session asked this question – “Why should someone buy your book?” The question was supposed to help me gain an understanding of what was in it for my reader. However, I drew a complete blank. Why should they? I couldn’t come up with anything other than I had written a good story that they would enjoy, but somehow, entertainment just didn’t seem like reason enough to ask someone to spend their hard-earned money.

Thankfully, I didn’t decide to about-face toward a career with easily recognizable benefits. Instead, I determined to discover the value of reading in order to answer that marketer’s question. Here are the fifteen that have helped me understand that being an author is as noble a profession as any other

1. Entertainment

“No entertainment is so cheap as reading, nor any pleasure so lasting.” – Mary Wortley Montagu

I’ll start with entertainment because it was the only item on my original list. Without a doubt, books are engaging and entertaining. We’ve all experienced a book we couldn’t put down. And we all hope that our next experience with a book is the same.

2. Learning New Things

“The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you’ll go.” – Dr. Seuss

Whether you read fiction or nonfiction, you can learn things while reading a book. For instance, you might pick up a new word or hear about a new place. You might grasp a new concept or pick up a tidbit of history you missed in school. If you want to learn something, read a book!

3. Better Communication

“I believe there is power in words, power in asserting our existence, our experience, our lives, through words.” – Jesmyn Ward

Communication is an important life skill because it allows us to pass on needed information, form relationships, and generally, get things done. And guess what? Readers are better at both written and oral communication. Because they read, they use a stronger vocabulary and intuitively know the right style for writing.

4. Live Longer

“Some day you will be old enough to start reading fairy tales again.” – C.S. Lewis

This one blew me away. There was a retirement home study that found readers lived two years longer than nonreaders. Wow! If that isn’t a great benefit, then what is?

5. Improves Sleep

“Take a good book to bed with you. Books do not snore.” – Thea Dorn

Studies concerning reading are endless. One found that when you pair reading with a nighttime routine, you fall asleep faster. The only caveat is that you must read printed material rather than on a screen. That pesky blue light can wreak havoc with your body’s natural cycles.

6. Stronger Analytical Thinking Skills

“Reading furnishes the mind only with materials of knowledge; it is thinking that makes what we read ours.” – John Locke

When we read, we tend to think ahead and see if we can solve the mystery, determine the outcome, or notice the one detail that puts the entire story on its end. This is known as analytical thinking and is another one of those skills that employers want their employees to have. If you critique a book with others, not only are you using analytical skills, but you are pairing them with communication skills. It’s a win-win!

7. Improves imagination

“Reading is an active, imaginative act; it takes work.” – Khaled Hosseini

When reading fiction, your imagination goes to work visualizing the scenes, hearing the characters’ voices, and feeling the emotions. And why is imagination important? The benefits of imagination are as endless as the benefits of reading! Those with strong imaginations have fewer memory problems, increase problem-solving skills, and more.

8. Better Mental Health

“Reading—the best state yet to keep absolute loneliness at bay.” – William Styron

Feeling depressed? Studies show that reading a book will help. The field of bibliotherapy uses books to help people feel better. Try it for yourself.

9. Reduce Stress

“Reading is escape, and the opposite of escape; it’s a way to make contact with reality after a day of making things up, and it’s a way of making contact with someone else’s imagination after a day that’s all too real.” – Nora Ephron

Remember what I said about studies? It seems that one found that reading for 30 minutes can have an impact on your health. How? It lowers blood pressure and heart rate. Another study found that six minutes of reading reduces stress by over 60%.

Feeling stressed? Pick up a book.

So, the next time you’re feeling stressed, remember the benefits of reading for pleasure and let the tension melt away.

10. Building Brain Connections

“To train your body, lift increasingly heavier weights. To train your mind, read increasingly tougher books.” – Johnny Uzan

Reading helps you build brain connections, much the same way that exercising builds muscles. The more a person reads, the stronger these neural networks become.

Do you know the phrase “use it or lose it”? Yep – it’s true for reading!

11. Concentration and Focus

“To read a novel requires a certain kind of concentration, focus, devotion to the reading. If you read a novel in more than two weeks, you don’t read the novel really.” – Philip Roth

There is an entire body of literature on something called deep work. Deep work occurs when you can do something for a long time without distraction. And guess what? Reading books helps a person develop this ability! Your readers need to learn to focus, so why not focus on your book?

12. Memory

“I am an omnivorous reader with a strangely retentive memory for trifles.” – Arthur Conan Doyle,

Reading books helps to improve your memory. As you read, you have to keep all the details in mind. There’s the plot, the characters, the relationships, the environment, and more. As you store this information, your brain creates and strengthens synapses used for memory storage. The more you read, the better you will be at remembering things.

Can’t find your phone again? Read a book!

13. Motivation

“Fairy tales are more than true: not because they tell us that dragons exist, but because they tell us that dragons can be beaten.” – Neil Gaiman

When you read about a character who overcomes a challenge, it can be motivating. Book characters can help us be positive, work hard, and never give up.

14. Empathize

“Reading is the sole means by which we slip, involuntarily, often helplessly, into another’s skin, another’s voice, another’s soul.” – Joyce Carol Oates

Books let us look through the eyes of someone unlike ourselves. As we see the world as they see it, we gain an understanding of different points of view. In our world today, isn’t that an amazing benefit?

15. Inclusivity

“Reading makes immigrants of us all. It takes us away from home, but more important, it finds homes for us everywhere.” – Jean Rhys

Along with empathy, books help us be more inclusive. They help readers become more open-minded and tolerant. It’s hard to look at someone negatively if you’ve been able to relate to their story. We don’t discriminate against those we understand.

This little exercise has made my job of marketing my books so much easier. Books have value to readers. And, as an author, I have value as well.

About the Author:

Born in Athens, Greece as an Air Force brat, Teri M Brown came into this world with an imagination full of stories to tell. She now calls the North Carolina coast home, and the peaceful nature of the sea has been a great source of inspiration for her creativity.

Not letting 2020 get the best of her, Teri chose to go on an adventure that changed her outlook on life. She and her husband, Bruce, rode a tandem bicycle across the United States from Astoria, Oregon to Washington DC, successfully raising money for Toys for Tots. She learned she is stronger than she realized and capable of anything she sets her mind to.

Teri is a wife, mother, grandmother, and author who loves word games, reading, bumming on the beach, taking photos, singing in the shower, hunting for bargains, ballroom dancing, playing bridge, and mentoring others.

Teri recently published her debut novel, Sunflowers Beneath the Snow, a historical fiction set in Ukraine that follows three generations of women. You can read the first chapter for free by joining her email list at https://deft-pioneer-4478.ck.page/c6edd375dd

Follow Teri on her website www.terimbrown.com

Or via the following social media:

Facebook.com/TeriMBrownAuthor

Twitter.com/TeriMBrown1

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LinkedIn.com/in/TeriMBrown

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Guest Post: Journey Toward Publication by Amber D. Browne

by Amber D. Browne

My lifelong dream has been to write a book. With the publication of The Little Book of Hermetic Principles: Heal Your Energy, Seek Enlightenment, and Deepen Your Understanding of Your Mind, Body, and Spirit, my dream has become a reality. Thanks to independent publisher Ulysses Press, I was able to research, write, and be involved in the editing process until publication.

The Indie publisher was searching for a potential author to write a book about the Hermetic principles. I was unfamiliar with the topic, but the opportunity stated the potential author should be familiar with the wellness space, mentalism, and vibrations, as well as have excellent research skills and the ability to write in an informative yet friendly style. This sounded like the perfect opportunity for me!

My background is broadcast journalism, so I know how to take what might be considered complicated information and write it in a way for the majority of the population to understand. I have always been interested in the power of the mind and energy, so I did a little research about the Hermetic principles. I knew this project was meant for me. I truly believe God put this opportunity in front of me so that I would take the initiative and begin a new journey in this life. I reached out to the acquisitions editor and ultimately received a contract to write the book. This was the push I needed to resign from teaching and start writing again full-time. This time, though, I would start a freelance writing business.

After signing the contract and receiving the first payment, I got to work on the 4,000-word outline. Prior to writing the outline, I researched Hermes Trismegistus and the Hermetic principles outlined in The Kybalion. I got a better idea about what I would cover, how I would go about sharing this ancient knowledge, and what type of guidance I would include to help readers implement this information in modern times.

An outline has always been my choice to organize during the planning stage of the writing process. I divided the book into three sections: Hermes Trismegistus and Hermeticism, The Kybalion-The Hermetic Principles, and The Mystical Teachings of Hermes Trismegistus. From this point, I was able to outline each section into chapters and determine how I would organize the book. Once the publisher approved the outline, I began the journey of writing my first book.

Throughout my career in broadcast journalism and freelance writing, I have reached out to thousands of experts and officials to share their knowledge about the subject matter I would cover. Research is a great way to get information, but when you can interview experts to share insight from their fields, you may discover information that never crossed your mind. As the interviewer, you can plan questions that will guide your writing for that section. If the experts add additional information that could be included, even better! You can find a way to work it into the text.

I found most of my experts through online searches. You can Google just about anything, and many times, you can reach out to organizations, associations, government entities, etc., for guidance on finding the right person to contact. If you know someone personally who would be a good fit, reach out to them! I knew several people who were experts in their fields or had knowledge on the subject matter for the book, so I was able to interview them to share their insight.

Whether you use a digital app or a physical recording device, always record your interviews! You can transcribe your interviews to guarantee you have the correct quote and information. Once you have done your research and have spoken to your experts, you can incorporate the information into your outline so that it follows the direction you are planning for your book.

I did not write the entire book in one document. I copied and pasted each chapter from the outline into a separate Word Document. The chapters were also divided into sections by subject matter, so it was much easier to keep the information organized. Once an entire chapter was complete, I would add it to the final Word Document. You could use Google Docs, too.

Two months later, I emailed the 40,000-word book to my acquisition’s editor. From there, I received editing recommendations, which took about a week to review and return to the publisher. The book was then formatted, proofread, and returned to me for review. I answered questions from the editor, proofread the book, and returned it with a request for one final review before publication. After the changes were made by the publisher, and I made one final proofread, the book was scheduled for publication.

Throughout the book writing process, I learned about contract negotiations, more about editing in different types of software, and of course, more about the subject matter. I am grateful for every aspect of my book writing experience. I appreciate Ulysses Press for giving me this opportunity and for everyone involved in the process. From the editors to the experts, they were all a vital part of bringing The Little Book of Hermetic Principles to fruition, and I am forever grateful.

The Little Book of Hermetic Principles: Heal Your Energy, Seek Enlightenment, and Deepen Your Understanding of Your Mind, Body, and Spirit is a beginner-friendly guide that delves into the wisdom and philosophy of Hermes Trismegistus and how it can be applied to modern life. The bookbegins with a brief history about Trismegistus and his ancient texts. As readers move into the chapters regarding the seven Hermetic principles, they discover how to harness the power of the mind, increase energy, and develop gender personality characteristics. Tips on meditation, music therapy, exercise, nutrition, prayer, crystals, astrology, nature, magic, alchemy, and so on, help readers foster a better understanding of reality, how the universe works, and the interconnectedness of everything.

This is my first book to author, but it will not be my last. You can find more of my written work at www.amberdbrowne.com. You can also find me on FacebookInstagramTwitter, and PinterestThe Little Book of Hermetic Principles is available for purchase at various online retailers including Amazon.

About the Author:

As a young teen, Amber D. Browne discovered her passion for the written word and for sharing information. After acquiring a BA in mass communication with a minor in history from Texas State University, Amber spent much of her career researching and reporting Texas news for radio. She later branched out as a freelance writer and editor for local magazines, and her desire to share her journalism experience led to a seven-year stint in junior high education as an English language arts/reading and media teacher. Amber resides in the Dallas-Fort Worth Metroplex with her husband and their two children. Find more of Amber’s written work at www.amberdbrowne.com.

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Ashley O’Melia is an independent author and freelancer from Southern Illinois.  She holds her Bachelor’s Degree in Creative Writing and English from Southern New Hampshire University.  Her books include The Wanderer’s Guide to Dragon Keepingand The Graveside DetectiveHer short stories have been published in The Penmen Review, Siren’s Call, and Subcutaneous.  Ashley’s freelance work has spanned numerous genres for clients around the world.  You can find her on Facebook and Amazon.

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Tarot Tuesday: How to Pick a Card Deck that’s Right for You

There’s an old tradition that a tarot deck must be given to you by someone else. That’s all very nice and romantic, but if I had to wait around for that to happen I never would’ve gotten any. I’m sure there are many of us who don’t even have anyone else in our lives who’s interested in tarot (or who even perhaps approves of it). So how do you get started?

For me, I picked up a set at a bookstore when I was a teenager. This was *cough cough* quite some time ago, and there were very few options for obtaining a tarot deck, so I took what I could get. I played around with it once or twice before it ended up in a box, untouched for the next twenty years.

What happened?

It just didn’t resonate with me. I looked at all this information, and I was completely overwhelmed. As much as I was interested in exploring the spiritual world (after all, I was a teenage girl), I thought this wasn’t for me.

The number of tarot and oracle decks currently on my shelf say otherwise.

So, how can you find a deck that’s right for you?

  1. Follow Your Intuition: Lucky you, since this is something you’ll need to work on when you start your tarot practice, anyway! When you’re looking through various available decks, either in a store on online, pay attention to which one calls to you. It may have a good energy when you pick up the box, or you may find your eyes lingering on one more than the others. Pay attention to that. It means something. I often get a tingling in my palms when a deck really does something for me. This is the case with the Shadowscapes deck for me.
  2. Check Out Reviews: Okay, this isn’t any different than when you’re buying anything else! In today’s age of buying everything online, we usually have the chance to look up a deck we’re interested in. We can see what other people have to say about it, such as the quality of the images or the cardstock, or if they had trouble with understanding the guidebook. You can also get a sneak peek of some of the cards, which is helpful for my next suggestion.
  3. Look for Artwork that Resonates with You: Should the artwork be important? Does it have anything to do with the message you’re getting from spirit? I think so! That very first deck I bought as a teenager had horrible artwork that meant nothing to me. Some of the decks that I own now hardly require a glance at the guidebook, and it’s due to the way the artwork speaks to me. I feel it shows me the message easily, and that makes the deck a joy to work with. For me, The Sacred Traveler oracle deck is like this.
  4. Tarot or Oracle?: Tarot cards can be a little bit intimidating, what with the meanings of all the different suits and numbers and the major arcana. Just like any other endeavor, tarot is worthy of spending your time and studying. You won’t get proficient until you put some time into it. However, if you’re really worried that you won’t get it, try an oracle deck. Many of these are a little more direct, and some of them even have their meanings printed out right on the card. The Dragon Oracle deck is pretty good for this.
  5. Give Yourself Some Time: If you buy a deck and it doesn’t resonate with you right away, give it a little bit of time. Don’t be like me twenty years ago and just put it in a drawer because it seems intimidating. Sometimes, the more we get to know a deck, the better it will work for us. It can just take a little bit of time and study to make that happen.

While I can’t sit here and tell you exactly what deck is right for you, I wish you luck on your journey to either finding your first deck or expanding your collection. Let me know how it goes!

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Ashley O’Melia is an independent author and freelancer from Southern Illinois.  She holds her Bachelor’s Degree in Creative Writing and English from Southern New Hampshire University.  Her books include The Wanderer’s Guide to Dragon Keepingand The Graveside DetectiveHer short stories have been published in The Penmen Review, Siren’s Call, and Subcutaneous.  Ashley’s freelance work has spanned numerous genres for clients around the world.  You can find her on Facebook and Amazon.

As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. Please consider using my links to do your shopping and help me out at no extra cost to you!

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